The Coaching Habit

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Most of us have been taught that being helpful is a sign of being good at work. You jump in, give answers, solve problems, rescue people from confusion, and keep the wheels turning. It feels useful. It feels efficient. It also quietly creates a mess. You become the bottleneck. Other people stop thinking as hard because they know you will step in. Your days fill with things you should not really be doing. And the people around you do not grow as much as they could. That is the heart of this book. It is about replacing the urge to advise with the habit of coaching. Not coaching as a big, formal, time hungry process. Not coaching as something reserved for trained professionals sitting in special rooms. The idea here is much simpler and much more practical. A little more curiosity. A little less advice. A few better questions asked more often. That is enough to change how you lead, how you support people, and how you work. Michael Bungay Stanier builds the whole book around a sharp promise. If you can make coaching part of your everyday conversations, you can become more effective and have more impact while doing less of the exhausting rescuing that keeps so many managers and leaders trapped. The book is not interested in theory for theory’s sake. It is built for real workplaces, busy people, and messy conversations. It wants to help you say less, ask more, and stay curious a little longer. The way it does this is wonderfully concrete. Rather than flooding you with abstract principles, it offers seven essential questions. Each one is designed to unlock a different part of a useful conversation. Together they help you slow down, get to the real issue, avoid rushing to solutions, and support action...